Jarah Christensen

Right in Relationships

Looking to have better relationships? Connection and communications are the keys, but creating a safe place opens the door.

Right in Relationships will teach you the Language of Personality to guide you in your journey to find more joy in all your relationships.  

The key to better relationships is the Platinum Rule:

Do unto others as they would want to be done to them

In other words, don’t treat people the way you want to be treated but the way they want to be treated.  Failing to do so will make the following situations too familiar:

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We each are born with a perception or view of the world. When we view the world in a way different from someone else it is easy to have misunderstandings. I will teach you about the different perceptions and how our hearing can get in the way of understanding.
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We all have patterns we get into with different people. Sometimes just one word can set things off. While you can’t change other people, you do have the ability to change your relationship with others by changing how you react to them. I will teach you how to avoid the miscommunication traps that can harm relationships.
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It takes time to mend old relationships but when you create a safe place for others by turning your judgment into curiosity, you have the ability to not take things personally. This will help others feel at ease when you are speaking with them.
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One of the keys to better communication is learning that it is not what we say but how we say it that makes all the difference. Others will better understand and feel heard when we use the right words, tones, and gestures. This “how” part can be what is missing and causing much of the confusion.
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Every person has the need to feel heard or accepted. But before we offer this to others, we must understand the personality of the person we are communicating with. In the Right in Relationship program I will teach you how to identify others’ personalities which will bring you closer to your goal of better relationships.
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I call these the “cacti” in relationships. When certains subjects are brought up everyone gets pricked and so the “cactus” gets thrown back in the closet. There is a safe way to bring up hard subjects. Right in Relationship will teach you the safe words and questions to ask that enable you to both walk away with no casualties.
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Everyone needs to feel heard or seen but first we need to know the person we are trying to connect or communicate with. Only when others feel safe and accepted for who they are will feel heard. I will teach you how to identify others’ personalities and how to create a safe for them to feel heard.
Ready To Get Started?
We all have patterns we get into with certain people, it can be just one word that can set things off. And while you can’t change others, you do have the ability to change your relationship with others by changing how you react to them. I will teach you how to avoid the miscommunication traps that harm all relationships.
Ready To Get Started?
It will take time to mend old relationships but when you create a safe place for others through turning your judgment into curiosity you will have the ability to learn to not take things personally and help others feel at ease when you attempt to speak with them.
Ready To Get Started?
One of the keys to better communication is learning that it is not what we say but how we say it that makes all the difference. Others will better understand and feel heard when we use the right words, tones, and gestures. This “how” part is what is missing and causing much of the confusion.
Ready To Get Started?
About Me

Why I love what I do

I was born the middle child of 7 kids. My parents would call me the peacemaker/tattletale of the family. I really didn’t feel close to my brothers and sisters growing up . They just seemed so different from me. Then I started my own family. I saw that even if I raised my kids the same way with the same rules and amount of love they were so different. I struggled to feel the connection that I wanted with each of them.

Looking back, I now can see how this desire to have better relationships with my kids and husband led me to Servants by Design. I became a trainer for Servants by Design and since then have been teaching in groups and one on one helping those seeking better relationships with family, friends and colleagues. I’ve also been part of the LDS Addiction Recovery Program and sponsored many to the road of recovery.

It is wonderful being able to help others discover the power and joy that comes from changing their relationships with others.

How does it work?

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What Clients Are Saying

"This course has given me the most amazing gift of understanding! Understanding has led to further peace in our relationships. I have been able to teach my kiddos these things about friends and teachers as well, so they can understand their fellowmen better and communicate better."

Trina W.

"Jarah, I am always so grateful for you! You and your classes have made all the difference in the world in my family and in my interactions with others, Thank you!!! "

Jena P.